The Lounge - Me And My Bf... Update

So after he hadnt called me the whole time he was in LA, I was frustrated and finally called him. He was being weird and I was just like...do you need like space for a few days? And he did. And was supposed to call me in a few days. He never did and that was a week ago. So I was really getting pissed cause I have a right to know if something is going on. So this morning I went to his mom's work. I figured we were over, and anything I did wouldnt make it much worse. I talked to her about pretty much everything. I told her everything that was going on. She was really nice too! :) But then me and my friend went to his house. And he came to the door and was like, Im busy. I told him I was tired of playing games, and I deserved to know what was going on. He said he'd call me in 30 mins. Surprisingly he actually did. In exactly 30 mins. So I went to meet him, and he was just apologizing and told me that he thought I was breaking up with him since I told him if he didnt call me, it was over and what not. But basically he kept apologizing, and I took him back like always. And now, hes leaving tomorrow or Hawaii for 10 days, and Im just gonna have fun, but not be sad anymore!

well don't take this the wrong way if you don't have trust in the relaltionship you won't have a good one. and ive been married 5 years and a lot of times me and my wife get mad at each other is a misunderstanding at each other good luck hope it works out

you shouldnt worry about it...but you both should come to an understanding in the relationship....
-your understanding is that he may need his space....
-and his should be that he needs to communicate with you or its over....
but yeah, GL hope it works out...

humm .....well, its good that things worked out, thats the main thing, did he say why he didnt call you?

Girl....you're a hopeless case......good luck anyway.

congrats... <3 hope he keeps better contact...

I really like how people come on here and talk about there personal lives, like we give a dam, or I really give a dam.

ORIGINAL: carlover

I really like how people come on here and talk about there personal lives, like we give a dam, or I really give a dam.

Your just mean and/or bitter.

ORIGINAL: AgentofDarkness


ORIGINAL: carlover

I really like how people come on here and talk about there personal lives, like we give a dam, or I really give a dam.

Your just mean and/or bitter.



Far from it my friend, I just believe that posting my problems on the net is just really imature.
"Oh dear look at me, I forgot to pay my taxes"-please pitty me.

I think that she was looking for advice and i don't see a problem with that.

I dont know about you guys but I am far too busy for bull$hit like that. You cant be nervous and get jealous when a bf or gf doesnt call............The way I see it is like this..........if theyre cheating big deal........eventually youll find out and end it.......because theyre not for you.........if youre with someone you should trust em.......and not have to worry about it........I do not have time to worry lol. Hell my HCF time recently got cut down so much that some days I dont even log on for a day or so. I think that if Amanda gets keeps herself uber busy shell realize that she doesnt have time to deal with the bull****, and yadda ya.......

ORIGINAL: carlover

I really like how people come on here and talk about there personal lives, like we give a dam, or I really give a dam.


Only thing sadder is taking these following steps:

1) Seeing a thread topic obviously containing a real-life topic
2) Thinking I hate people that post stuff like this
3) Openning the thread
4) Reading said real-life topic
5) Actually becoming even angrier at said poster
6) Typing a reply stating how angry you are about real-life topic
7) Waiting
8) Replying again

You could have saved yourself some grief by simply stopping at Step 1, but no. You are pathetic enough to participate in something you dislike because you simply do not have a life, yet want to appear e-tough.

Congratulations, you suck at life!

Carlover. Its called a forum. To put it a notch higher, its called the internet. Being an "e-ass" doesnt get you anywhere fast, especially here. This is also an online community so anydbody is free to post anything they care under the forum rules. Deal with it.

yea, what remmy said, i hope everything works out for the best!!! where do you live?

I don't know how you stand it.

ORIGINAL: Remmy
This is also an online community so anydbody is free to post anything they care under the forum rules


Exactly, I'm just giving my opinion. I'll stop now before it gets out of hand.

760-7390

;);)

on a more serious note...hope that all works out for you. personally...i wouldnt have put up with the crap. i guess you're a better person then i am.

[sm=violin.gif][sm=headbang.gif] voted: worst thread of the year

Just dont think too much amanda. I never understood why girls get upset if u dont call. Obviously im doing something......and ill call when I have time to talk. Just dont over react. The woste case is he IS cheating......and hell eventually get caught and wish he never did it........just dont get like over protective or accusive......that is just immature and annoying.......you either trust him or you dont........and if you dont trust him you shouldnt be dating. Dr. Pete out.

i'd be funny if he knew you posted here, and took advantage of that. ok that wasn't nice, sorry

Well time to add my 2 cents.

Going on a trip and not calling, I'd be out hunting down some girls and don't have time to sit on the phone.

Telling a girl that I'll call her in 30 minutes after she shows up at my door, there's another girl inside and that'll give me enough time to get rid of her.

I think he's cheating. That's what I'd be doing at least.

Disclaimer if my wife reads this: I love you :D

ORIGINAL: silverbullet

Disclaimer if my wife reads this: I love you :D


LOL

ORIGINAL: carlover

ORIGINAL: Remmy
This is also an online community so anydbody is free to post anything they care under the forum rules


Exactly, I'm just giving my opinion. I'll stop now before it gets out of hand.



What you were doing was bashing. That wasnt an opinion.

ORIGINAL: silverbullet

Well time to add my 2 cents.

Going on a trip and not calling, I'd be out hunting down some girls and don't have time to sit on the phone.

Amanda, I don't know what his guy's like, but fyi, when I go on vacation with my family, I'm always busy, doing stuff. I don't call anyone, don't worry about stuff at home, don't even check my email. Hope everything works out with you two. :)

I cant help but to look at this topic, see Remmy's post, and think of 3 little words that would solve everything...

STOP! Hammer time!


But on a serious note. You will live and learn, but in the end it will all work out for the best.

ORIGINAL: silverbullet

Well time to add my 2 cents.

Going on a trip and not calling, I'd be out hunting down some girls and don't have time to sit on the phone.

Telling a girl that I'll call her in 30 minutes after she shows up at my door, there's another girl inside and that'll give me enough time to get rid of her.

I think he's cheating. That's what I'd be doing at least.

Disclaimer if my wife reads this: I love you :D


he's either cheating or hes into midget beastialty.You decide.

Why are girls so naive? smarten up, if he cared about you at all he would call. period. apologizing after doing all of that? of course he would, he still wants the companionship. Imagine what the future generation of families is going to be like.."my 4th daddy can kick your 5th daddys ass!" "yeah well my 3 mom can kick your 4th moms ass, and still cook dinner in time!"

Sad really.

ORIGINAL: C5SpoonEG



he's either cheating or hes into midget beastialty.You decide.

Why are girls so naive? smarten up, if he cared about you at all he would call. period. apologizing after doing all of that? of course he would, he still wants the companionship.
Sad really.



That is what I think is really going on. Im surprised you took him back Amanda. IMHO I think hes worthless. Really though, the thing when he said to basically go away for 30 minutes is B.S.. Either he was cheating on you or sucked into a video game. The last time I checked, video games didnt keep me or any guy I know of from seeing any girl at their doorstep.

Even if he's not cheating, he obviously doesn't have it together enough to stop and thing, "Hey, I'm in a relationship with someone. Maybe I should not just find, but make a couple minutes to call them and check in."
If it doesn't occur to him that you spend any of your time thinking about him, and if it doesn't occur to him that maybe he should at least pretend to care, then you really don't need to deal with him.
This is some basic stuff that should be obvious. That is: Call your girl/boyfriend before they call you, wondering why you haven't called.

Go find someone who does what you want without you having to tell/beg them.

^ Ditto. Go find someone who wants to call you.

Doesn't really seem that he has your best interest at heart, but best of luck to both of you. Hopefully things will improve and you can both be happy.