afternarket seats that come with compatible seat belt
 

are there any make of aftermarket seats that come with the female part of the seat belt that is compatible with a 95 hatch ?

Why not just move it over to the new seat? I've never messed with aftermarket seats, but I know the female part of the belt is simply bolted to the OEM seats. From my experience, racing seats don't have this because most people who get them have harnesses. Otherwise, there isn't a point to them unless you want the look.