Okay so I recently started a new job, since then Ihvae been flirting with one of the girls there non-stop. So today we hang out outside of work. Its obvious we like each other alot but she has a boyfriend, now before you judge read on. She has no family her dad died a few years ago and she has no idea what happened to her mom. noone ever told her. So she lives with this guy but has been looking for a way out for the past 4 months. But has noone to stay with til she can get another place of her own. SO she is kinda stuck with this guy but wants to date me now that I came into the picture. Whats your folks thoughts? Also whast your thoughts on weed? She wants me to do it with her, personally I have never ever done it. So I am not so sure.

 

dam thats hella sad for her but i would just continue to see her and just see where it leads. but it seems kinda shady if she wants you to toke up with her cause most girls arnt into that and can lead to problems.

 

DOPEIS ILLEGAL dont do it lol but imo i say f'd it try to date her and see what goes on from there, maybe she will like u or whatever andmoves in with you,but over the weed thing its not my thing but ur big enough to make that ur choice

 

idk moving in with you is a pretty big step, and doing that right off that bad would either be ridiculously awesome or ridiculously horribel. Its a risk for sure haha idk, how good do you know her? If you really know her deep and shes legitimatelly cool, hell, just go for it. It'll atleast be a good story haha

and weed. If you do it and don't disturb anybody, hell man it's your body, do what you want. Its fun as hell to smoke, just dont let it get in the way or school/work/family/friends/wahtever else you do. If you're not bugging anybody, whats the hurt? It's your body. Yes, it's a illegal, and its bad for your lungs, but do what makes oyu happy, which weed is known to do haha

 

the way i see it. smoking tobacco is worse than weed. both physically and being addictive. so go for it.

 

Tell her to quit smoking up and apply herself to make enough money to get out on her own.

 

Help her get out first, that way the guy wont be able to put hands on her if you do get with her. Also, I've only smoked a 3 times that I can think of...and I hate it. It makes me feel like an idiot and I just sit there and do nothing. It may not form a very strong addiction but its a bad habbit to have none the less.Honestly if she's a pretty regular smoker, skip it. A dime or two a week adds up quick, and that would be a big step toward rent.

 

Well the weed actually her sister gives to her for free, so its not like she is dumping her whole paycheck on the stuff. But she has never drank so i figure I will try the weed with her and then she will be trying the alcohol with me. And as far as sseing her I am just going to continue hanging out with her til something happens between her bf and her. However I am keeping my limits to not even kissing her, just because its not really righ to try any of that when she has a bf.

 

All I know is weed+alcohol=bad. Made that mistake once and ended up with a fist sized shatter in my windshield (and I dont remember anything from that night). I smoked that crap almost everyday for about a year. On one hand its illegal, on the other hand do you see/hear of people dying of lung cancer from smoking it? no cigarettes do that. IDK, up to you, I wouldnt do it, just cause its addictive and makes you look like an idiot when you are doing it. It stinks, but so do cigarettes.

 

Honestly, everything seemed okay until I read the weed part.. You don't need drugs in your life. And I can tell the girl is a little messed up(no offense), so she might do it for a nice 'break' from things.. But, i'd say.. Stick with her, open her eyes and show her a new world. And let things go from there, maybe she'll realize that drugs are pointless? Don't let her influence you on drugs either, you don't HAVE to do it, if you don't want to. Just let things go into play, and maybe things will work out for the best.

Time can only tell.