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Feb 12, 2007 | 03:39 PM

#21

My04Civic

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RE: Getting married

first, congrats dude! im engaged also, and im living with her. like tony said, its nice to see what little things **** eachother off, haha its always fun, good luck bro

Feb 12, 2007 | 03:52 PM

#22

Peg_Leg

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RE: Getting married

congrats dude may you both have many years of happiness

Feb 13, 2007 | 08:17 AM

#23

Forty04

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RE: Getting married

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ORIGINAL: TheMoogly

I had been in college so I was used to guys...

I always figured you were a bit fruity....

Feb 13, 2007 | 09:19 AM

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jake11375

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RE: Getting married

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ORIGINAL: Forty04

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ORIGINAL: TheMoogly
I have heard that living together before marriage makes it tough once you tie the knot... I bet there are plenty of people that do.. but I never did

B.S., I'm a firm believer that everyone should live together for at least a little while before getting married. You don't ahve to have sex, but living together is an awesome indication as to whether or not the marriage will last. Lori and lived together for 2 years before we got married, so I knew damn well that I could stand being around her 24/7/365. Soooo many people I talked to that did not live together prior to marriage, have run into all sorts of problems now that tehy're hitched and living together.

You'll never know all the little things that will **** you off (or things that you do, that will **** her off) until you've lived together for a while

Actually,studies show that cohabitation before marriage contributes to a higher divorce rate. This is not intended to speak to your situation in any way 40

as everyone's situationsdo not fall into statistics in general.But anyway congratulations dbcluthcin, I wish you and your futurewife the very best.

Feb 13, 2007 | 09:22 AM

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Forty04

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RE: Getting married

Thats pretty interesting... I can honestly say that I highly doubt that'll apply to my case.

Feb 13, 2007 | 09:36 AM

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jake11375

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RE: Getting married

I hear ya... statistics don'tdepict every single situation, just whata "select"majority experiences.Studies show that Christians have a higher divorce rate as well.I don'tplan on being a statistic...

Feb 13, 2007 | 09:36 AM

#27

ScoobyAddict14

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RE: Getting married

i agree with tony and my04civic, living with the person you are going to marry is a good thing before you actually get married. sarenia and i lived together last summer at her parents house and it was awesome. we are down here at school together and i agree that its a good thing we are together a lot because we know we will be able to stand each other when we do get marriend and living together. everyone is different and i think its the person's risk in what they decide to do.

as for the divorce statistic, thats all it is is a stastistic. statistics are one thing but people are different. i hate when ppl compare situations to statistics because you have the power to beat them.