Um.... I quite frankly don't recall much... the topic on the board was along the lines of "Traditional Women's Work" ... I just remember that it was quite an uncomfortable place for me to be in...

 

Okay, well. Tried to talk. Just got cursed out. So.. I ended it. Yeah, it was a bloody mess, but was happy I did it. I feel as if a huge weight is off my shoulders.

Now she's calling me saying she wants to get back together. I don't want to. What should I tell her?

 

tell her she had her chance. she blew it not you. if she was unwilling to communicate then, what makes her so different now, a few hours/days later? ppl don't change my friend. not overnite anyway. and if you give in to her, she'll know she can act however she wants from now on. just my opinion, but ive been there.

 

make up sex?

 

Baha. Quite tempting. But I actually think in this scenario, sex wouldn't be worth it.

 

+1

Going back just proves how deep shes got her claws in ya...

 

well if Dr. Byers would still around he'd say it, but since he's not i'll say it: You're either gonna marry her or break up with her sometime. Granted if you enjoy spending time with her don't leave her, but if you're not having fun and can't see anything happening beyond her being your girlfriend, what are you sticking around for? Sure the memories are nice, but remember those are MEMORIES and not maybe what it's like now. It might be hard, but do what maeks you TRUTHFULLY happy alright? It'll be hard for a few weeks or months, but you'll get by. We got your back too

 

sex is always worth it.


kidding, kidding....

 

Wow dude.. this is weird. Ok, I am a girl. I myself just came out of a 2 year relationship a little over a week ago. I was the one broken up with. We had problems due to having a long distance relationship the whole duration of being together and our own separate didn't want to agree with us and story short.. it took it's toll on us. However, I supported his love of his car cuz I got it too and I wasn't mean or a bitch. Just had a problem with not being together enough. Now... my advice to you.. is if you really love this girl.. if you can see ur future with her then stick it out.. but do NOT belittle yourself or be unhappy. You need to talk to her and let her know how you feel about the way she treats you and how it is important for her to support the things you like to do even if she may not like what it is you do. If she is unwilling to change, then leave her. That was the big thing with my break up.. I just wanted him to talk to me and tell me what he was going thru in his life but he didn't...therefore I reacted not wrong, but I wasn't compassionate enough and the support wasn't there cuz I had no clue. I thought there was something wrong with me.. so I ended up complaining. TALK to her is my point. She's gotta support what you want as well or it will never ever work. Good luck.

 

okay.. i was way late.. couldn't load the last page of this thread before I posted my reply. You made the right decision if u got cursed out for tryin to talk. Don't feel bad about it.. She aint' worth it if thats how she reacted. Tell her to go suck an egg.. lol