Is she recently divorced or separated? Did she say why she contacted you now as opposed to earlier?

 

She talked about not trying to get involved with anyone while her daughter was living with her, but that's when we just casually talked at work and such. Her daughter recently moved out with her b/f.

 

So she's divorced and hasn't been in any relationship for many years because her daughter lived with her?

 

Dude, she's 38. You're weird.

But seeing as how this is teh intrawebs, yes, n00dz are required when posting something like this.

 

^lol. Cvcrcr got himself a cougar. And there is some hott cougars, so nudezz of older women, that are hott of course, aren't to much of an eye sore. And may I ask what is char. Lol. I think your best bet if you don't want it to be datey date is take her to lunch. Dinners are usually more romantic and are at night, and that's when most of the pow powww happens. I would say lunch, its more social then romantic.

 

the char is an exclusive social club.

 

Yea, something like that I guess. For the most part, it isn't any of my business. But I do know that her and the husband divorced when her daughter was 2. She has talked to me about how she cannot stand him still. haha

exactly.


-- I dunno what to think at this point, and don't think noodz would be appropriate.....right now at least. I don't have any yet! Ha

 

She obviously likes you and wants you. She's well aware of the age gap. She probably has a friend going off on how cougars are now a days.

I say dinner at a decent place. Buy her a few glasses of wine and get ready to knock boots.

Otherwise, you're leading her on.

 

Friend zone her. It's fun and chicks love it. Go out on the little date of yours and act like you're genuinely interested in her. Around date two or three (lunch dates are perfect for this), mention how good of a friend she is, putting verbal emphasis on the word "friend".

Also, don't take relationship advice from me over the internet. In person, I give outstanding relationship advice. Over the internet, I do things for the lulz.

 

So, you are basically telling him to do the opposite of what you posted in the first paragraph? lol