I am completely done with relationships, f**k it. Game over. I am so sick and tired of this happening. I devote over a year of my life to someone, just to have them completely f**k me over. So what-f**king-ever. Screw it, I'm done with relationships.

 

What did you think was going to happen?

 

yep i understand, i did the same thing and only for her to cheat on me and screw me over. I said the same thing not too while ago. You gotta just let time heal you bro and you will start to soon recover.

Just dont worry about it now, just go with the flow and the right will come when the time is right

 

Yeah, I know... it's just been so long since I've been dumped by someone I actually cared about that I forgot how much it hurts.

And I hate starting new relationships... it's always so awkward. I really want to get back with this girl, but at the same time I'm not sure I could ever completely trust her after this, which would more or less ruin the relationship anyway.

(And if anybody's wondering, I was dating this girl for over 14 months... then today she calls me and tells me she's not sure if she loves me anymore. I honestly don't think anybody else is involved (I've talked to a few of our friends about it and I believe them and her). It's just it was so out of the blue, she didn't have any warning signs, but she said she's felt like this on and off for the last few weeks. Personally, I think she can't deal with a semi-long distance relationship.)

 

We've all been there. You'll have a few sleepless nights but eventually life will go on. For me, it's about 2 weeks of recovery per year of relationship. So you've got a couple few weeks in front of you. Good luck and spend the time taking care of your Civic.

 

Or she may honestly feels that way and has been pushing it aside hoping it would pass. Look man I am going through a divorce and I am still deeply inlove with my soon to be exwife but hell what are you going to to. If a person dont feel the same about you then the relationship is doomed anyway and on top of that you cant hate her for being honest and not feeling the same as she once did. Love is a ****ed up thing man really.

 

I've been there... I was with my ex for over 3 years when out of the blue he decided he wanted a "Break" "but we're still together" and then I ended up being cheated on. It sucks. I really hope the best for you. Try to keep your chin up!

 

Quick update: OP is a senior member who we just cant seem to get rid of and hasnt owned a civic in a witches titty

 

I would take a cheap shot at you now but I am being nice.

 

i know the funny part is that I am also a senior member who wont leave and hasnt owned a civic in a witches titty