Ohay so whoever said storms come in 3's obviously does not know my luck. Yeah yesterday me and my girlfriend broke up. And I feel like an idiot. So we were having one of those lets work out our problems discussion, and she said it would be easier to just quit dating and pick up where we left off when she turns 18, I took that as her saying thats what she wanted to do and I told her well fine you have lost your devotion. Well turns out she said that what would be easier but thats not what she wanted, so now the girl that has helpped me through everything is gone, not sure if she is gone forever she said there was a chance of getting back together but I am not sure if its going to happen I am hopping to god we do. This girl got me through so much the thing with my parents divorcing my cousins wreck me finding out about my dad. she is what helpped me stay sane and now the only reason I ahve yet to completly lose it is becasue my best friend is here and I don't do that stuff when I have people around me. She still tells me she loves me and all that and which I obviously love her back. She was like my first girlfriend ever and I was hoping my last, but of course nothing ever goes as planned. Anywaise basically all the stuff that should have messed with me in the past months is all starting to hit me now, she was the one i turned to so she was what got me through it all. I just can't beleive she is gone.

I HATE THIS

 

GO AND GET HER BACK DUDE!!!! that is the only thing I can say if she made you feel that good and I am sure you did make her feel good too then I believe you should be toghter. I am sorry to hear about your problems I hope they will work themselves out.

 

Yeah, its easy to get a girl friend but its not easy to find one like her.

 

Sounds like she was a great girl, but hey if it doesnt work out, there are always more girls out there.

 

sure there are other girls out there, but not any like her. We made it through alot of stuff and now it seems stupid that something like this has done us in.

 

how old are you? I don't mean to be a jackass, but here are a few tips that you could probably use (bold parts apply to you):

1) Supply and demand - this is the most basic economic prinicipal in the world and it applies to dating. I think a lot of guys fall into the friendzone by trying too hard.

2) Women want sex just as bad as men - we just need to give them a reason. Don't believe me? Pick up a Cosmo magazine...it's 450 pages of tampon ads and how to have sex and not feel like a *****

3) Women change. Daily. Little miss perfect might dig your car now but after dropping a few buck into it her opinion will change. The amount of money and time you spend on other things is inversly proportional to how much she'll like them

4) If you are under 25 there is no reason to have a girlfriend. Period.

5) Between 21 and 24 just treat them like jerks. Your gut says that the guy that remembers her birthday and sends flowers will get her. Not true. The guy that is a total *** will. I can't explain it and given all the time and scientists MIT has to offer they can't either. These relationships usually last 3 months but played correctly can lead to you getting her to seriously compromise her morals.

6) The words "I'm recently divorced" + alcohol = you getting laid. There is not an easier woman in the world than the 25-35 yr old woman that got divorced less than 6 months ago. Word of caution - do NOT go back to your place or give her your number. Pump and dump only.

7) They are all crazy...it just verys by degree.

8) If she'll do **** she'll do anything.

9) It's never her first time for *insert sexual experiance here*

10) Learn how to perform oral sex. It's an art and learning such will give you the keys to the kingdom

11) Never spend more than $100 on dinner. One, it won't get you laid and two if you're already getting laid why bother? skip to 12 if you disagree

12) A woman makes her mind up in the first 15 seconds of meeting you if she'll sleep with you or not. If you become friend you're not getting laid period. Even if she hates you you still have a chance to get laid. I've seen this many times with my own eyes and yeah alcohol has been involved but once you become friend forget it

13) Dogs are mans best friend because women can't resist them. A dog won't EVER **** block you either. He's the perfect wing man

14) The best time to get laid is in college. Don't remotely expect the same amount of action post college.

15) You're fat, ugly, and broke? Learn how to play guitar.

 

meh, it feels like that after you break up with your first girlfriend. How long have you been together? I wouldn't get stressed over girls - they come and go. Don't fall for the first one. Keep yourself available. Personally I wouldn't even think about serious relationships before the age of 25 (or later. it depends if you're ready or not)

 

haha i love that..because MOST if not ALL of its true

hey man, i had a girlfriend for 3 years, she was my bestfriend and pretty much my only friend..we did EVERYTHING toughter 24/7. I am only 19 now, i started dating her when i was 15 and broke up with her like 7-8 months ago..at first its HARD, VERY VERY HARD. Sometimes i still get depressed about it when i think about what we had. But also i am pretty happy because i can get on with my life now and start seeing other people and making new friends and flirting with girls. It seems like its all new again, its like a kid in a candy store and i love it...i cant even imagen having another girlfriend right now..or for a long time (unless mss.perfect comes along), but i just want to makes friends and have fun now that im not tied down, so i say to you...it will take a wile for you to get over her, but enjoy it man,get out..meet new people and new girls!!!

 

this man speaks the truth

 

He talks from experience.