nah man you don't need her. she has a bf and she does drugs. You don't need to take someone's gf away from them, imaging how you would feel if that happened to you? Also you don't need drugs in your life. Just stay away from her

 

Size up who the girls boyfrind is first, last thing you want is a guy coming after you with a bat.

For the comment about tobacco being worse than marijuana. One bowl of marijuana is equal to the effects of a whole pack of cig's smoked. Once flame is taken to the pot it producers all sorts of chemicals, so unless you use a vaporizer it's pretty much just as bad. Only reason why scientists can't fully determine any deaths to marijuana is because of 70% of people that smoke pot smoke butts as well.

 

well there is another twist lately she has been coming to work with loads of bruises. Now most people would say dont jump to conclusions, but after talkign she made it clear that he had beat her several times.

And I use to have a great deal of respect for others relationships meaning if I saw a couple I would not even attempt to make a pass at the girl. But after having one of my ex's seeing my best friend behind my back all that respect just disappeared.

 

Well first of all BAD IDEA to let her move in with you. Its easy to let her move in, but super hard to get her to move out, if you want to help her, then help her get an apartment, or a roommate. And for the weed part, sorry to say it also but thats usually a bad sign for a girl to be doing that stuff.

 

the DR is in!!!1 and boy have I got some advice for you.

it's just like m-m-mo-momma said on Waterboy: "weminz is da' DEBIL!!11"

 

RED ALERT

Sounds like this chick has a lot of baggage.

Stay away.

 

So stayed the night with her I didnt smoke any, she did. She also got drunk to she was really showing it the next morning at the meeting at work to. Kinda funny anyways I am going to give it a bit of time and see if she leaves him if we start hanging alot and she still does not then I will throw in the towel, and call it game.

 

good choice...are you goign to do anything about this guy beating her?

 

well maybe the guy beats her cause all the drugs she does you never know. but good luck

 

he does them to, and its just the weed. Where we live there is much worst problems. But I do have something in mind....... but I am not sure.