Ok so as some of you know i am a Sheriff's officer in my first year on the job in Barnstable County (Cape Cod) Im 19 years old, ill be 20 in a few days. Well I also am Security Manager of a little beach bar called The Raw Bar in a VERY affluent area of the Cape. Well I have met this girl, shes young and she works at the cafe acorss the way of the bar. Shes 17 years old, but she isnt immature, she isnt like the average 17 year old, she could easily be mistaken for someone older than myself in the way she acts/looks. Shes about 5'5 blonde amazing body and gets serious attention where ever she goes.

Keep in mind im 3 years older than her, so she gives me her number, we start just talking on the phone, you know standard sh t, I decide to take her to play frisbeegolf (not much to do on Cape lol) had an amazing time, we are talking on the phone and what not and taking it very slow. Shes pretty wealthy her dad has a Ferrari 512 among other cars in his collection. The only thing im worried about is if this is a good idea or not lol Should i just play it by ear, or should i just not get involved?

The father knows me, knows who i am, all the cops who come into my bar know there is something going on, but they just look at me like the young rook who cant keep his dick in his pants, but its not true. Im not like that, im not just looking for a lay, shes a nice girl. She'll be 18 next year, and ill still be 20 when shes 18. So i dont know what to do in the meantime.

 

lol. youll figure it out. I know you already have the answer.


Speaking of all this dating mumbo jumbo... what is up latley with all that? Its like this place turned into the honda hookup forum or something lol.

 

lol true true yah i kinda do have the answer. haha

I know right, this place has turned into the Love Hotline latley but ahh well.

I guess ill show you guys a pic of her. *this was taken over 2 years ago too lol

 

 

haha i guess this will soon turn into a love forum..

i think u have the right idea of taking it slow, its not always a good idea to jump right into a relationship. i think thats when it ends up turning bad. i guess being friends for now wouldnt be a bad idea and then later on u'll figure out what to do.

 

Your treading in murky water, so proceed with caution. Don't "hit it" until shes legal.

 

the only way that you can safely hit it, is to take it slowly and make sure that her father knows that your intentions are good...once her dad trusts you, you can hit it...is he into cars? if so you might be golden.

no offense, but regardless of what you think you know, or regardless of your job, youre very young, and the odds of you even knowing this girl in 10 years are VERY slim. if things work out for the better, awesome, but like i said, youre young. i couldnt tell you the name of one of the girls that i was sleeping with when i was 19...hell, i might not have known their names then...very few of them knew mine...


i dont travel, but if im not mistaken, cape cod is a vacation spot, is it not? i would think that youd get all kinds ot daddy's little girls in there with their friends...my rule of thumb at your age was "if there is chance for lots of trim with lots of girls, its better than lots of trim with one girl". if youre going to be serious and WAIT to hit it with this girl, you have to ask yourself "is she worth waiting for, and could i spend my life with her"...if you can even hesitate for a second (which you should at your age) play the field..its big.

then again, i played a college sport, and it flowed like water...i had a girlfriend for a brief time in college, but id go to the bars or clubs with my teammates, and find myself saying "i should BS with that girl because it might lead somewhere bad and i have a girlfriend"..then one day i realized "this is dumb...im turning down other girls, for one?" and that was that...it was some 4 years until i had a steady gf again, and that is, of course, amanda....with whom i live. but im old now.

 

DAMN PAT!!!! that was some straight up Dr.Phil ****!!!!! it was right though lol i know im 18 but im def settled down alreddy haha might sound stupid to some but you know sometimes love doesnt make sense, and i'm not talkin about those girls who get beat up and don't leave the douche bags because " i love him" those chicks are just stupid!

 

Well said by no means am i looking for someone who i can spend years with. Im young and your right I should and am looking for a lot of tail right now. Im manager of a bar at the age of 20, believe me I do ok with the opposite sex. However this girl is really nice, and you cant help it when it clicks with someone. The girls i just hook up with, i have no real chemistry with, hell i only call them up when im drinking.

I have hooked up with random women, some as old as 40 years old, its fun and all, but it can only last so long. Im more of a romantic type as gay as that sounds, sometimes i just need a girl to just sleep with you know? no homo lol

 

I wouldnt worry about it too much, as mentioned before 'hit it' and may I also add 'hit it hard'. Just see where it goes, if it works out it works out if not then it doesnt. Its no big deal when your young. You cant lose, you may get too ride the 612 as well!