So my 99 HX wouldn't start- not even try to turn over, and a new battery did nothing to help. Rather than go to the pain of replacing the starter I tested it out by wiring the starter straight to the battery and it started right up. The wiring all looks good so it's apparently the starter relay (right???) but i went searching for it under the dash on both the driver and passenger sides but just cannot find it.

Can someone PLEASE tell me where to find the starter relay on my 99 HX auto?!

BTW:
Yes I have the 99 HX with the CVT and yes I have had to replace the transaxle TWICE, hahahaha 'should have bought the manual tranny' yeah I know.