my 1997 honda civic ex will crank at start but will not turn over....all the spark plugs are good I cannot find the main fuel relay anywhere on the drivers side around the fuse box area....It looks like a day time running light relay has been added.....does that relay also parallel the fuel relay?

 

They went to a different type of relay starting in 1996-- the new type seldom breaks down. It's mounted in the glove compartment area but you really shouldn't need to mess with it as it's not likely the problem. Disconnect the fuel return line (from regulator to firewall) at the firewall end and see if fuel is flowing through the fuel rail.