I'm not the guy to give pointers on this, but what I would do is make the wife understand if she cares about her daughter that she should act like a real person and be nice to all of you, and maybe just ask her plain and simple what is wrong. You seem to have *some* violent tendencies in you, after all, all of us do, but you have to realize that when these kinds of emotions linger in your heart that alchool can make you become a truly horrific monster. I know all about alchool and what it can do, trust me and these kinds of emotions do not mix with it. Seriously for the sake of your family and yourself stop drinking this much, I plead you. You might beleive that alchool is making you feel good but seriously I know for a fact that it makes you worse and when your drunk well...all you think about is your problems and cry about it, you are completely incapable of reason when drunk no matter what you think. First thing you can do for yourself is lose the bad drinking habit it will only make your problems worse, I come from a family that has had alot of bad experiences with alchool and trust me, it always get worse. If I ever have children *if* I will seriously punch the life out of anyone who approaches my kids with just a simple smell of alchool on there breath. Do it for your kid because in the end they are the ones who pay for your drinking habit, trust me, I know...I was one of those kids.

Most important thing to remember in a relationship is to not let the negative experiences get to you, otherwise its a losing battle from the begining.

You might be faced with the fact that you might have to get a divorce and bring your daughter with you, sometimes that can be the only option left, this will have to be made clear to the wife if she truly does not want to cooperate.

Anyhow, stay strong, stay away from excessive booze and cigars, don't let anyhting change you, not the relationship, not her, not the booze nor the smokes, be yourself and grab this situation by the gonads like the man that you are.


Good luck to you.

 

ok....alcohol poisoning sucks...not that I didn't know it already...anyhow. I don't drink cuz I have a habit, I drink cuz it was really bad and I was gonna do something idiotic if I didn't drink myself to the point where I couldn't get to the couch and fell asleep on the laptop (keyboard on face for 30 minutes is fun). The sad thig is that we talk about it all the time and nothing happens. It seemed to have gotten better in the morning, but than again only after I put a nice hole through the sheetrock...


Damn I hae one hell of a hangover...

 

i dont get hangovers and that pwns...
but to get on topic...my parents divorced when i was around 10, and it was a living hell for me....but my parents made it better by not fighting in front of me and my siblings, and working out a somewhat even schedule for us to visit both parents...this is what made it better...but then my mom went and married a OCD,Bi-Polar, controlling alchoholic that made me and my siblings lives horrible...he gave me a few mental issues, such as severe S.A.D.....but after she and him got devorced, me and my siblings lives are better, and i no longer hate going and visiting my mother....i have also mostly worked through my SAD....
if you do decide to get divorced, dont try and steal your daughter from your wife, and dont let her do it either....and also, when she gets to the understanding age, dont, DONT! fight in front of her.....
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well thats my view of the topic....however choppy it may be....

 

And what did you expect after all that alcohol
Go get some real workout, It heples me usually...
Than you can think again[8D]

 

I think I might pull the tranny out and check if it's clean on the inside...that'll clam me down

 

Don't think it's a very good idea. Threadmill or training weights, or smth along those lines would be safer

 

Why not? I had this thing apart too many times to mess it up..and I need a new reverse gear switch anyhow...

 

I di not mean safer for tranny, I meant safer for you. This job kinda requires precise motion with heavy parts involved, and you can just hurt yourself physically.

 

Some garden job like cultivating or raking would be perfect

 

^ personally those jobs would **** me off even more