depressed as hell
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RE: depressed as hell
ORIGINAL: Fiirkan
I couldn't agree more, feel like that everynow and then, i'm still looking.. and know i will find someone better, and i can't wait to be honest. I'd much rather be with someone, that makes me happy, then be alone... but they need to be the type that i can get along with even when involving my hobbies. My ex hated cars and everything about them, they are jsut a point a to b thing for her. everytime i mentioned something cars, she would say " Tim... i do'nt care".. so it started getting to a point where she would talk about somethign of interest to her and i would not listen at all. and just ignore her
ORIGINAL: koots
My ex was somebody i had been friends with for so long and i really felt like she was a person i could love for a long time, than we broke up and things got kind of bad. i felt like **** everyday and wouldn't eat or sleep, i would just sit and barely exist.
than after i had given up on finding a relationship, i met my current gf. she very quickly helped me forget all about the ex and whatever it was that we had. it may not go so smoothly for you but it you can't give up, things will get much better just don't let the breakup make you feel like something is wrong with you. It takes 2 people to start a relationship and 2 to end it.
Just think, next time you start talking to a girl at the store, bar, at work, etc. you don't have to worry or feel guilty for flirting. and now you can actually accept a phone number
My ex was somebody i had been friends with for so long and i really felt like she was a person i could love for a long time, than we broke up and things got kind of bad. i felt like **** everyday and wouldn't eat or sleep, i would just sit and barely exist.
than after i had given up on finding a relationship, i met my current gf. she very quickly helped me forget all about the ex and whatever it was that we had. it may not go so smoothly for you but it you can't give up, things will get much better just don't let the breakup make you feel like something is wrong with you. It takes 2 people to start a relationship and 2 to end it.
Just think, next time you start talking to a girl at the store, bar, at work, etc. you don't have to worry or feel guilty for flirting. and now you can actually accept a phone number
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RE: depressed as hell
Yeah.. Sorry to hear man. I was with my ex for 2 years, and then she broke up with me because she couldn't trust me.. Because about a year ago, some ***** kissed me and I never saw it comming.. But, then I was unfaithful to her and cheated on her a year ago.. And I just now told her about it, because I thought "If I truely love her and stuff.. I'll tell her the truth." and hoped for the best.
I havn't spoken to her in about a month.. And its been really hard, I still can't get over her. But, I know I really hurt her, and shes moving on without me.. And just seeing her in the halls at school and stuff, KILLS me.. Because she ignores me, and in class she doesn't even acknowledge i'm there.
But I guess I got what I deserved..?
But.. Don't worry man, things will get better in due time.. Trust me, things will get alot worse before they get any better, trust me, I know.. I'm still suffering from my Ex, she meant the world to me, and I hurt her.. REALLY bad.. And she didn't deserve it, all she ever did was be faithful, love me, and do anything she could to make me happy, and I betrayed her by sleeping with another girl.. Because at the time I was confused about my feelings. My LIFE was perfect, with her.. But yet, I wasn't happy for some reason.. Then when I made that mistake, I realized what I had done, and that I truely care about her, and loved her and she was the one I wanted more than anything.. And I hid it from her, for a frikkin' year.. Yet it tore me up inside, lying to her for that long...
*Stops rambling on* Sorry :P.
I havn't spoken to her in about a month.. And its been really hard, I still can't get over her. But, I know I really hurt her, and shes moving on without me.. And just seeing her in the halls at school and stuff, KILLS me.. Because she ignores me, and in class she doesn't even acknowledge i'm there.
But I guess I got what I deserved..?
But.. Don't worry man, things will get better in due time.. Trust me, things will get alot worse before they get any better, trust me, I know.. I'm still suffering from my Ex, she meant the world to me, and I hurt her.. REALLY bad.. And she didn't deserve it, all she ever did was be faithful, love me, and do anything she could to make me happy, and I betrayed her by sleeping with another girl.. Because at the time I was confused about my feelings. My LIFE was perfect, with her.. But yet, I wasn't happy for some reason.. Then when I made that mistake, I realized what I had done, and that I truely care about her, and loved her and she was the one I wanted more than anything.. And I hid it from her, for a frikkin' year.. Yet it tore me up inside, lying to her for that long...
*Stops rambling on* Sorry :P.
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RE: depressed as hell
damn, well koots and fiirkan are right, by a long shot. vliex, damn man. that something. but i guess i'm a dumbass for being as faithful as i was....oh well though. like she's being so cold to me, like not giving a damn and we're fighting a lot more now too, i think she want's it even more over then it is. i really feel like kicking her in the ovaries
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RE: depressed as hell
ORIGINAL: point break 92
damn, well koots and fiirkan are right, by a long shot. vliex, damn man. that something. but i guess i'm a dumbass for being as faithful as i was....oh well though. like she's being so cold to me, like not giving a damn and we're fighting a lot more now too, i think she want's it even more over then it is. i really feel like kicking her in the ovaries
damn, well koots and fiirkan are right, by a long shot. vliex, damn man. that something. but i guess i'm a dumbass for being as faithful as i was....oh well though. like she's being so cold to me, like not giving a damn and we're fighting a lot more now too, i think she want's it even more over then it is. i really feel like kicking her in the ovaries
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yeah, i know... =/ i'm not with her with her, she just has me there lingering. we just fight more,i told her we should stop talking better and if we find a way back to each other and things are good then great if not then, the hell with it. she left me in the end, nothing on my conscience asking what if... ya know?
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well i was married for almost 5years and it was ok in the begining but as the years went on we changed...but then i ended up meeting this really nice guy on HCF...we were together for awhile and i did some stupid stuff and he broke up with me...but the funny thing is is that i would anything to have him back...i really love him...so i guess im still sitting in the same boat as you point break and i cant date anyone without thinking of him so now i have just decided to be single...i dont really want anyone else.
and i cant date anyone without thinking of him so now i have just decided to be single...i dont really want anyone else.
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yeah guess we're on the same page. it sucks a lot, there guys are making good points though, but i don't know it may take a while. to wipe away all the feelings, like the g/f before her of only 9 months i forgot easily cause she was nuts and cheated on me >kinda< <<complex very. so it was easy to forget her. but this girl, nothing really went wrong, it's all in her head she's just really confused...and it drove me nuts, all of a sudden she's surfacing issues i never even knew exsisted in her. ****....
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i saw a whole bunch of things that i really wanted to quote, but if your reading this post you have probably read the rest and there's no point. I feel the best way to look at it is that if it ends it is for a reason it wasn't meant to be. It doesn't feel like that at the time, and there's nothing anyone can say to make you feel any different, but it will, the girl your meant to be with will be the one, the girl im with at the moment is the best i have lived with her since day 1 which i know is strange, i have moved countries for her, i have been all round the world, i have been with her 4months short of 2years and it feels like we have been dating for just a week its the best, she is not into cars so much but she respects my interests and i respect hers.... i really think she is the one, i could be wrong, but at the moment i am enjoying what i am doing, i think that is important to make sure you are also make sure that YOU are happy with what you are doing and if you are not then its time to rethink....
well i could rant on...but i am not.....
I think it is good to see a thread like this... you guys that may think like me will know why.....
stay strong, do what you love, enjoy life, do not sacrifice your own life, enjoy your life as you only get one chance, make the most do what YOU love!!!
well i could rant on...but i am not.....
I think it is good to see a thread like this... you guys that may think like me will know why.....
stay strong, do what you love, enjoy life, do not sacrifice your own life, enjoy your life as you only get one chance, make the most do what YOU love!!!
