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Old Dec 19, 2005 | 01:19 AM
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Been there a lot too, but usually the girl...um...isn't that hard to break up with. Harder with a nice girl who you have nothing against but time.
Thats why you end it on a good note. Keep in touch with her, who knows what the furture holds bro'!!!
 
Old Dec 19, 2005 | 07:24 AM
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Have as much fun as you can with your current girl, and make sure you show her an excellent time as well. Treat her right, and have as much sex as you can.
That will tide you over until you nicely break up with her and start going out with the new girl (which you have already stated that it's evident that you'll be doing this). You won't be bedding the new girl right away, and the megasex will wear off.
 
Old Dec 19, 2005 | 07:55 AM
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Have as much fun as you can with your current girl, and make sure you show her an excellent time as well. Treat her right, and have as much sex as you can.
That will tide you over until you nicely break up with her and start going out with the new girl (which you have already stated that it's evident that you'll be doing this). You won't be bedding the new girl right away, and the megasex will wear off.
As I said before, I'm not in it for the sex, and I really don't NEED the sex, it's more of a perk for me.
 
Old Dec 19, 2005 | 08:33 AM
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aight man i am going to be completely honest with you. you do not need to be meeting and calling other girls while u have a gurl. i have tried it and done and succeeded. but somehow they always find out it can last for about 3 mo.. and one of them finds out and then they go ask the other and then u lose both of them. so do the right thing. do what your heaart wants you to do . would u rather have one or none andc hoose wisely. and pick the one who has the best ***. lol
 
Old Dec 19, 2005 | 08:35 AM
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<--- rarely looks at asses...would rather see a nice front end...
 
Old Dec 19, 2005 | 09:30 AM
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94 Civic, I live in the dorms, and we met while watching TV in one of the dayrooms. There hasn't even been any kind of talking that would get me in trouble with the current girl. It's more body language, that I can tell that the new girl would want to date me. I'm not doing ANYTHING that would be held against me (except what I'm saying on this forum...But this is strictly confidential ) And I WILL be careful...I've had a lot of drama when it comes to relationships, so I don't want any extra floating around. And just for the record, I'm more of a face guy...and personality (text book answer, I know, but it's true!)

BTW, Sacs, did I say something wrong? It looks like you edited my last post...
 
Old Dec 19, 2005 | 12:49 PM
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I agree with sac. Wait til after the holidays. If anyone is a Jude Law fan, youve probably seen Alfie. He says, "Everyone should have a relationship to get them through the holidays.. From mid Nov til the beginning of Jan, so that no one has to be alone." Or something like that lol. And I remember when I was like a freshmen, my bf broke up with his ex 2 days before Valentines day and asked me out on Valentines day. Needless to say, the girl then hated both of us. Try and end it on good terms..like someone said, you never know what the future holds. Maybe someday the time will be right for you both, and ending on good terms can leave it open to the possibility of a reconciliation. Good luck with whatever you choose, its never easy.
 
Old Dec 19, 2005 | 04:24 PM
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I agree with pretty much what every one is saying, but i also know how hard it is to make a decision about your current relationship, my girlfriend and i have been together for almost 4 years, 2½ of that being long distance, and now we are living together... come this summer she is graduating from university, after that there is nothing keeping us in the city where we live, i want to go back home ( if i could i would now) and she doesnt. but she doesnt want to stay here either. so we are trying to compromise, but things aren't going very well, and we both dont want to do the long distance thing again.... and things arent goign verywell.....
 
Old Dec 19, 2005 | 08:02 PM
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skytanker2003, there isn't anything wrong with going out with both at the same time, until you're ready to make a choice.

Just make sure you don't take em to bed at the same time!
 
Old Dec 19, 2005 | 08:27 PM
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here's some advice: LIFE'S SHORT. PARTAY HARTAY!!1

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