lol...been there before....met up, talked, ended up having sex, got back together, broke up again, got back together, broke up....

Gotta follow your heart...not your other head [

 

exactly what i was just thinking....

 

follow the little head, it has yet to fail me!!!!!!!! yeah right. DONT THINK WITH THE LITTLE HEAD!!!!!!

 

You've got to tell her EXACTLY what you're thinking. Tell her that you don't want to deal with the on/off relationship. Worked for me! She'll either conform or go her own way! Either way you're a winner!!!

 

just do what's best for you.

 

I like this. Tell her you love her and want to be with her, but you cant handle the fluctuations. Tell her you would marry her and you would love to call her children your own, and let her make the decision. I am assuming you have talked about marriage before though. If she cant handle the idea of commiting to being in a relationship full-time, without the option of breaking up for a while or whatever, then you dont need the drama, no matter how much you love her, its not going to be worth it if shes not going to meet you halfway.


Good luck!

 

i agree. she may have realized what she lost and wants to give it another shot. just tell her why you're reluctant to give it another go. it sounds like deep down you may want to give it another shot....otherwise you wouldn't think twice about her texting you out of nowhere.

 

If there's any question in your mind, don't do it, because you WILL end up with all the drama in the end.

 

We talked. I went and picked her up at around 1pm and I just went and dropped her off. Went ok I spilled my guts as she did. It seems that we were both on the same page just at a different point. Lol she told me that she could not sleep last night as she knew we were going to see eachother(My bs-o-meter kinda started ringing) But all in all it went well. We have decided to start seeing eachother again but we plan to go slow at it at first.

This is great news to me, I miss her alot and it may be a lil weird but I honestly miss her kids a lil more than her. Only time will tell I guess.

 

Glad to hear everything worked out for you.