Women are as big of a mystery as the purpose of life. The damn mystery is never gonna get solved. Ahhhh!! they drive me crazy. But thats life.

 

women...cant live with em, cant live withoutem...o well good luck bro.

 

Play it by ear, next time you see her ask, maybe she got nervous. Maybe something important came up and she was afraid you would be mad getting blown off twice so she didin't call. Best thing to do is just talk to her, if she really likes you it'll work itself out if not there's always other women!

 

Me and my well ex/friend (but she wants it to be back together inthe future) has been doing this patern to me for damn near 2 years, but it's gotten worse in the last year.... thus is why we are ex's (well that and lots of other bs). She'll say "I miss you" or "I miss hanging out" but when it comes down to making plans she's all words and no action (I'll call you tonight and then I hear nothing for days). It kills me cause I stupidly love the woman (the type of love where no matter how mad you are just holding her in your arms makes it not exsist for that second.....) but the bs she makes me deal with isn't worth it PERIOD.


IF she wants to hang out and be with you SHE will need to make it happen. You can only extend your hand out so far, if she chooses not to grab it that's the choice she's making and any other b/s to explain the situation after that point is just filling in a cheap bs burrito that's not worth even looking at. Take it from me, if she wants you she'd make excuses to see you (my buddies wife did this before they got together just so she could see him), even while she was sick (baby sat my ex while she was sick cause she wanted to be near me - while the relationship was good) or thru any other bs period (like say "hey come visit me at work","can I visit you at your work" or something).

Best of luck and I hope things work out better for you than they have for me (while those two years have gone by quick, the ammount of pain and anger I suffered makes those years worth nothing).

 

im curious to see what happened tonight?

 

She's playing a game, man. If she told her MOM anything about a guy then you definetly are golden. If she didn't call you then she just had something else but it isnt meaning she was totally ditching you. It seems like she likes you but just has to sort out whatever she has going on so she can get a bit of change for you. I did a similar game with my wife (when I first met her) but at the time she was about to break up with her boyfriend... I didnt know that at the time, however, until we were dating.

I took all the time she needed, but i did call her so much I thought I was a stalker, but seriously, persistence is something any girl would love... I would have been in heaven if my wife would have been the one always calling me to hang out... sometimes people just get busy suddenly and forget about the more important things because she doesnt know it is important to her yet. good luck

 

Humans are so complex... I would just wait for her to contact me about it. If you see her at the bar just ask what's up. Obviously, if she told her mom she's interested in you, she really is, and you are interested in her as well. Just try to make her feel comfortable next time you meet. Good luck...

 

I really hate hate hate those stupid mind games.

 

Hey bro, you gave that chick her chance. Strike three, you're out! You should ask another girl on a date and have your friend bring a date and go to fridays or wherever she works just to show her you can do alright for yourself. That might make her jealous if she digs you plus you'll have another chick on your jock. Trust me, it works.

 

Well I went to fridays last nite. Very weird **** happened. Shes talkin to some dude at the bar and totally ignored my buddy and I. She walks the 2 guys out and then comes back and says "Sorry for ignoring you, thats my ex bf".....so i told her straight up.....it was messed up that you screwed me over this weekend. She said "I didnt screw u over, I had to work." I replied. "You could have called to say you coudlnt make it, so that i wouldnt be waiting for a call and not making plans". She said "youre right im sorry".........then to put a long as story short........she comes out and sits next to me, and we start chatting..........Basically i told her I would love to take her out, but im not looking for any drama or bull****......I do NOT need that in my life. So I said , Id be more than willing to take you out, as you seem to be a good girl....but at the same time I do not like people who beat around the bush......and waste my time.........so her reply was "well im not off till friday."..........so i said "I can be off whenever I choose, you want to go out friday? Sounds good, you call me and let me know if you wanna go out, and we will go out.....you dont call, no hard feelings, it will be squashed and ill pretend it never happened................so well see what happens.








i spoke with the other bartender and he was sayin thats her ex bf and hes like tryin to get her back or some ****.....so im thinking it might actually BE her boyfriend and shes tryin to get rid of him? Either that or shes still with the dude.........or they could be broken up.no idea..............but i did tell her that if she went out with me 1 time ,shed never even remember who her ex bf is......(her reply to that was "Wow, youre confident, thats pretty hot")..........so basically if she calls me friday, we go out......if not, im better off w.o her and the bull**** drama.......I get enough of that **** running my business...... for some reason i dont think shell call........its just weird because i know shes interested, something is just holding her back.......its a shady situation.....and i dont like those. lol