Get off his back....area code rule. I wouldn't call my girl if I left town either. Last thing I need is a moral issue when it comes time to swtich gears (not meaning cars). Obviously he comes back home to you so w/e he is finding isn't that great (not saying you aren't). You could always make him use his hand for awhile. That will get his attention for sure.

 

I can't spell either....by the way, fat fingered the keyboard a few times, its 5 AM so its excuseab;e right? Oops happened again.

 

Something just don't sound right, if it is his parents then he might have to make a choice if his parents don't accept you. He should NOT let his parents hurt you like that. I'm not saying he should have nothing to do with them but if they invite him on vacation and won't let you come then he should decline the invitation. And there is no reason that he can't talk to you while he is gone. It is something he should want to do if he is away from you.

 

damn, I saw the title and thought Amanda was switchin' teams


I dont really have any advice. Us guys do things that seem right at the time, without ever thinking of the consequences we'll face later. It happens. Hope everything works out for you Amanda. Either way, I know you'll be just fine.

 

+1
Tell your boyfriend to do some soul searching when he gets home. Tell him to get up to speed with the woman he calls his future. If he can come up with a reason other then "uh...I dunno know why I do this", then maybe consider him worth while. This is the reason you date..to see if the other truely is the person you dream of.
Damn..I would have so lost out on a B-E-A-utiful relationship with my honey had I thought of anything or one but her. I called anytime and all the time when we where apart. To this day we hate being apart, and always talk to each other.......PITCHBLACK Area code rule?? WTF are we still in high school or what? The guy has made a commitment...he needs to check the size of his onions and stop being a mama's boy. (Sorry Amanda..no offense)

 

Thats your answer ^. Hes being a straight up ***. Too bad you didnt find a guy like me. I always make sure I call.

 

To me it sounds like you already know what you needs to do, you are just afraid to do it!

 

Amanda, you're way to cool and there are far too many men out there to settle for one who's cool in some ways, but a complete *** in others (f*cking with your feelings is never ever, ever acceptable). (Almost) everyone in this thread has hit the nail on the head. Don't settle. You can do better.

 

Are you completely positive he is with his family...He could be telling you that and since you said his mom doesnt like you, maybe she would cover for him if you asked her about it. He could be goin to LA pun-hunting and coming up short handed, or fisted whatever lol. seriously don't let him wlak on you like that

 

i think the first question is a lot harder to answer than the other two. you cant really ask someone 'why are all these people like this?' it always varys from person to person. for instance, if it was me and i was doing that it would be my way of telling someone that it was over. but then someone else could just be having a little fun with you (though it obviously isnt coming through that way). its really hard to answer a question like that because every guy is different, just like every girl is different.

to question two...i have to say yes. im sorry to say it...but like i said if i was doing that itd be my way to tell my girl it was over. on the other hand he coul djust be d*cking around with you (i know some guys who do/would do that). but i think you're right.

as for the third question...ditch his ***.