well, if that's the truth, and you can get your live's together(not saying it's not) and get a well paying job right out of high school/college, I don't see any problem, other than legal **** getting in the way, and how come her mom hates you so much? sorry if I missed it

 

Basically her mom hates me and my family becasue ashley likes to be with my family more then with her own. AShley has also flat out told her mom and step-dad that my fmaily is more of a family then they can ever be to her. And after all that whenever her mom tries to make it hard on her me and my family will help her out which has really pissed off her mom and step-dad so basically they have and will still try anything to get me out of the picture

 

dammm son

 

Oh and lets not forget the part that they dont like me becasue i dont attend church every sunday

 

o, duh of course you can't forget that one, lmao you sure you want these people to be apart of your family if you get married?

 

Geez Lousie, those are some horrible parents (hers I mean, yours seem cool). As far as what you should do, DONT get married. Even if you love her, being in a marriage that young is going to put all kinds of strain on your life and your relationship, look at the divorce rate of young people these days; its through the roof. Have her talk to a mediator and explain that she would rather live with her dad. Site specific example of why it would be better for her to live there too, i.e. its easier to get to school, she can focus better there, lower stress, basically anything that would help her grades be at the top level. Good luck.

 

There is also allways more than one side of a story, not to be a *** but I honestly could not and do not want to give advice on such a touchy subject that I dont know everything about.

 

Dude, getting married at 17 is extreme. I know you might feel it's the best thing now but later on I can almost assure you you'll realize it wasn't smart.

 

dont get married

 

^ what he said.