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Old Feb 20, 2006 | 01:24 PM
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Thanks again...we're in Southern CA so no snow and it's never too cold to go out.

I'm looking at the plays coming up at the local ampitheater and there's a really good looking one opening next week. The theater in town is a big deal so the stuff is usually pretty good. He's really big into theater (he actually works for the city dealing with the theather stuff) so I think he might just like this one I'll see him tonight, I just might have to ask him I figure there's some brownie points in taking him to something that he's genuinely interested in. Tickets aren't too expensive, either.
 
Old Feb 20, 2006 | 01:31 PM
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A great way to see if he likes you and to make sure hes a legit guy is if he really pushes on him paying for the tickets or paying you back for both of you.
 
Old Feb 20, 2006 | 01:31 PM
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ages?
 
Old Feb 20, 2006 | 01:33 PM
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Me-21, him-22

He paid for dinner last week even though I said I'd pay my own way. Mini golf was free because he knew the guy behind the counter

Should I invite him to the play over the phone or in person? Like I said, I'll see him tonight.
 
Old Feb 20, 2006 | 01:36 PM
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so, youre both "adults"..ok..i thought that you were younger for some reason...

what i think, is that you just keep up with the "hanging out"...i somehow missed about the dinner and golf before, sorry.

but honestly, it sounds like its going well...just let things progress, and spend time with him, and at some point, its bound to come up with being "official". [8D]
 
Old Feb 20, 2006 | 01:38 PM
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I think Pat said it best, Guys don't do "subtle." Just ask him out, I can almost gaurantee he'll at least give it a shot.

Good luck!!
 
Old Feb 20, 2006 | 01:40 PM
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in person. and i love it when a girl asks me out.
 
Old Feb 20, 2006 | 01:44 PM
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I think every guy loves it when a girl asks him out. Go for it, it seems like you two are already starting to hit if off right.
 
Old Feb 20, 2006 | 02:24 PM
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Okay, wish me luck tonight!
 
Old Feb 20, 2006 | 02:32 PM
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Good luck!!!
 

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