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Old Feb 20, 2006 | 02:33 PM
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girls asking guys out....were are these girls?

..good luck with everything, dating can be a little scary at first, but once you and the guy start forming a connection a hole other world opens up between you too, and remember to always make the relationship intristing, dont always do the same thing...i no alot of relationships (including mine in the past) you get board after a wile thats why you got to always look for new things to ****e it up
 
Old Feb 20, 2006 | 02:43 PM
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girls asking guys out....were are these girls?
seriously!.....

good luck with everything. worst he can say is no and even then u guys can still be great friends and maybe later on down the line he'll change his mind..
 
Old Feb 20, 2006 | 02:59 PM
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Yeah, I don't think he'll say no though
 
Old Feb 20, 2006 | 04:26 PM
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good luck... and when did girls start asking guys??? lol

well i guess i wouldn't really know since i have been in a relation ship for 4 years now and she is pretty much the only girl that i have "dated"... and now we live together too, and thing seem to be going good.... most of the time(well every couple has their "spats")
 
Old Feb 20, 2006 | 04:43 PM
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ORIGINAL: Remmy

Also, look at it this way: Ive been a guy for 20 1/2 years and ive generally found I dont hang out or go out for that matter with chicks if I am not already interested in them. A lot of females think that the guy hanging out with a female is just friends (unless they have been life long friends) but Im telling you, most guys are always looking and dont even think that he hasnt already thought about you in that way.
truer words have never been spoken. never.

drop subtle hints, but not too subtle. the thing with guys is either
1) theyre just cluless or
2) they notice it but its subtle enough to the point where they think theyre imagining things. (this one is a lot more frequent than you think. it is an old sexist joke that guys are horny 24/7. if its too subtle the guy will think hes imagining things and just to make sure he doesnt rienforce that stereotype wont make a move after it)

just do little flirty things. remember back in like late elementary school..early middle school...when you'd be staring at a guy/girl and the guy/girl would see it out of the corner of the eye, and look at you, and youd snap your head away? do stuff like that...but dont snap, just smile and slowly look away. touch him a lot. for taht use any excuse you can. even just his arm being on the table by you. just say something about it and touch it. the cornier the thing you say is, the better, because he will know you are flirting with him. stuff like that.

good luck.
 
Old Feb 20, 2006 | 04:45 PM
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good luck... and when did girls start asking guys??? lol
When guys stopped paying attention to our hints [>:]

Now I've gotten myself all wound up around him thinking I'm goofy. Ugh, I am my own worst enemy some days.
 
Old Feb 20, 2006 | 04:53 PM
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hey if your content on taking him out and want to go to that play, tell him yopu have two tickets(even if you don't) and ask if wants to go, if he says yes then get 2 tickets ASAP, if he say no. then you havent spent a penny yet so your good in that department too.

but like i said before good luck
 
Old Feb 20, 2006 | 04:55 PM
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What if the even its sold out?
 
Old Feb 20, 2006 | 04:56 PM
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well it is still worth a shot, well you should call in advance to see if there are any left... that would be a good idea too if you going to use my plan
 
Old Feb 20, 2006 | 05:29 PM
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If this guy just left two BAD relationships, I don't see any good coming out of dating him.

especially if you're a rebound relationship...

"proceed with caution."


 

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