Its clear for you to see the guys a bum...but for your mom, shesees him as a great guy...

I guess if shes your mom and an adultshe can do what she wants in her own house, even thoughit hurts you to see people making bad decisions.

Id tell your Mom one last time the guy is a bum and a loser...if she wants to see him still thats her choice...youll have to be around to pick up the pieces when things fall apart...

...people have to make choices good or bad [:@]but its their own choice and you cant live someones life for them...

You dont have to give the guy a second chance, just be civil when your moms around him thats all...

 

The sad thing is that she knows hes a bum...I'm just waiting for it to fall apart

 

how old is this dude?? my mom dating a dude that young would put me over the edge quick, i gotta hand it to u for keepin ya cool, and dont give him a chance, women dont know whats good for them, at least most of the ones i know dont

 

I said in the first post that he's 23...and she's 40. My mom isnt old or anything its just that she's at the point in her life where (I think) she needs someone she can make a future with and this douche bag has nothing going for him at all plus he's a drunk asshat

 

if you ever catch him about to drive drunk, call the cops and tell them so he gets busted. then take your mom's celly and take the house phone off the hook so he can't call her to bail him out.