There it is....she is looking for a daddy for the kids.Thats why the sex is so great. A woman can pour it on or shut it down and know this...they use that thing like a weapon of mass destruction. Just keep a cool head,no one can tell you what to do.Any advice that says do this or don't do that will be wrong. use your own judgement and watch for the red flags to go up

 

You have some guts bro to say that online but ive been there before i think like everyone says follow what your heart wants make sure you consider all angles and see if thats what your really looking for it happenned to me before i decided thats not what i was after so i cut it loose and im seeing a great girl at the moment im in the same situation as you she has a kid from the previous guy but i think i can see past that because shes a great girl and i met her son im looking to give it a shot man

 

After you been burned a couple of times like I have you learn to not jump in so fast,it ain't always what it looks like on the surface. Maybe I was a little crude but I hope the point is not lost.

 

this happend with me a little wile ago..we were toughter for 3 years and had everything toughter, but the drama was become to much and we were growing apart, i dident talk to her for like 2 months ,started to get over her..then we make contact again and she wants to be best friends and hang out and i no if i did that it would lead exactly to you no what...so i told her no,and havent talked to her for a couple months now,im happy..im sure one day tho ill make contact again,when were both over the past and have moved on.. alot of history

 

good news marty that you two are back together..

i am also a pushover you could say...my g/f and i just went in on a maltese dog that was 550 bucks....

 

A little update. We have went out a couple times and just generaly chilled with eachother for the last week and everything is going great so far. We have both decided to take it slow, kinda starting over. We are not even going to jump back into having sex yet which is a big step for us being the whole time we were together in the past we ****ed like jack rabbits. It's cool though I want here to know it is about more than sex which it is and I also want her to know that even through everything I still respect her enough to sit back and chill and let things progress on a slow level.

 

hey thats great marty good luck man i hope it works out for you