It's still possible that the solder joints on the main relay may be weak and the problem is intermittent.

 

thats what I was thinking, I'm going to pull it out tomorrow and inspect it. I did have starting issues during the summer when it would get really hot during the day the car woudl be dead as can be. I didnt learn untill recently Honda's have trouble with main relays till I did some research today. I bought a fuel filter, spark plug wires, spark plugs and a new cap in rotor to tune up the car and then this problem started happening and i have yet to put them on, think it would be a good idea to put that all on tomorrow when I inspect the car?