my fault. sorry people..thanks too mk378

 

I was using Hess gas but they started adding 10% ethanol so i tried another brand - also the manual says be careful of metal objects on your key ring. The immobilizer might not recognize your keys coding and shut down the fuel system. I had a dog tag on my ring and removed it. So far -- so good.

 

interesting, I have a pewter tag on my keychain, never really though that might be the issue. Maybe tomorrow I will place it close to the ignition/honda key and see what that does.